The world is in crisis due to the novel coronavirus pandemic. Everywhere you look, you see evidence that the world has entered uncharted territory. Businesses closed, people quarantined, grocery shelves bare.
If this were a movie, I think it’d be time for a scene of people screaming out of control and crazy with panic.
That, of course, would make a bad situation worse. Panic never helps. We all know that, but fear is a natural response to what’s going on and if someone says they’re not at least a bit scared right now, they must not be paying attention.
So, if we’re all admittedly scared, how do we keep from going over the edge into a full-blown panic?
Fear is a hard emotion to deal with. Fear hurts. Fear is uncomfortable and fear is, well...scary!
Fear is so awful that people often deal with it by ignoring danger and pretending it doesn’t exist or at least isn’t that bad. Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt as they say!
We’re all probably aware that denial is a recipe for disaster, even if it feels good in the moment.
Is there a middle ground?
Is there a way to be aware yet not afraid? Yes, but many people never master the trick, which is why denial is so prevalent.
I’ve heard many people proclaim that they aren’t going to “live in fear,” so they don’t want to follow isolation and quarantine suggestions. That’s denial.
If you study pandemics of the past and epidemiology, it’s clear that COVID-19 has the characteristics scientists have identified as most likely to cause widespread problems, so the threat is real.
Some people worry all the time. To banish the habit of worrying, it helps to remember that you have limited control. If you are truly doing everything you can to prevent a problem, then worry beyond that is wasted energy.
Direct your energy into the best things you personally can do to prevent problems. Do them. Consistently. Then breathe deep and let it go.
Keep aware of the situation and remind yourself that knowledge is power. Knowledge should not be what makes you fearful.
Accept that you have limited power and control in a situation like this, but you can be diligent in following safety precautions. You can be diligent in doing all you can realistically do.
Deep breathing truly does help calm you down. Close your eyes and take 10 slow, deep breaths in and out. Meditate to relax. Watch a funny movie. Make a list of things you are grateful for to put your mind on a more positive path.
If you find yourself worrying nonstop, you have got to learn to redirect your mind. Pandemic or no pandemic, chronic worrying takes a toll and you can learn to stop but it certainly is not an overnight process. It takes practice to make it a habit.
Is this a great time to reconnect with those you live with? Maybe a fun family project would give you all something productive to do together.
Most of us complain about never having enough time! Well, now you’ve got some extra time. Focus on the positive and use the time to your advantage.
Are there some subjects you’ve been wanting to study or read about? I’ve seen many universities, museums, zoos, and other public attractions adding to their online content with virtual tours and live cams of cute animals and that sort of thing.
If you’ve wanted to take some professional SAP training, this would be an awesome time for that. Improve your skills and beef up your resume by adding some professional credentials. For example, you could look into finally tackling your goal of learning SAP.
With the internet, you have the whole world at your fingertips so you can distract yourself from worry in a number of ways.
Continue doing all you can to protect yourself and your family. Be diligent. Beyond that, focus on the moment, be grateful for what you have and hug your loved ones close.